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Friday, June 05, 2009

Merhaba from Jasmin-back in Istanbul:
 
heeey mom and dad. i can't write much because we just finished packing and it's very late, past 3:00, and we're getting up at 9 for a long day.
 
so very quickly: the trip to see Uncle Murat was amazing! Such a sweet family. long hours talking together last night, so sweet I actually cried, I was so happy having such new amazing family. Aylin is one of the purest, sweetest people I have ever met and I really loved spending time with her.
 
Ephesus was INCREDIBLE. I\ve never experienced a place like before! really stirs up the imagination, you know? We didn't actually get the listening devices because it didn't feel right. it would separate us and we wanted to be interacting with the fmaily. Uncle Murat bought some books though, one for him in Turkish, and one for us in English, which had a ton of information that we read together as we walked through. Thank you so much for recommending it to us. We're SUPER glad we went there.
 
Anyway, we're back now. We flew from Izmir to Istanbul, were picked up by Deniz, Selim, and Sinem, and came home to a wonderful dinner prepared by Auntie Cihan, which Uncle Davut joined us for. We had some wine, chatted for awhile, but Aysha and I had to go get packing because Sinem has a long day planned for us tomorrow. First we'll go see Auntie Suzan with Auntie Cihan and bring her flowers, then we'll visit Fuat (and bring him flowers as well), and then we're in Sinem's hands. She told us to bring a swim suit. We'll see what happens! She told us to be packed because we'll be out late and heading straight to the airport (most likely) in the morning.
 
WE LOVE YOU SOSOSOSOSO MUCH. I'm really sad I won't see you when I get back!!!! As soon as you get back, Aysha says she plans on seeing you IMMEDIATELY. 
 
We'll try to get internet before we get home, but if we don't, have a good and SAFE trip. We love you!
 
this is aysha. forgot to tell you that we have a whole suitcase full of presents for you and dad, only SOME of which are from us. everyone was really eager to buy you things!


Thursday, June 04, 2009

June 4, 2009

Merhaba from Aryalik:

we are at uncle murat,s beautıful summer home rıght now! very lıttle tıme on the ınternet because we want to talk wıth aylın but wanted to drop a lıne. aralık ıs beautıful - ıt,s a great greek-style ısland just lıke the one ın mama mıa. you,d love ıt. efesus tomorrow!

 

love -

aysha and jasmın

 


Wednesday, June 03, 2009

Merhaba  from Aysha:

yesterday, jasmin and i went to the biggest island of the princes' islands - buyukada (literally: "big island"). we took a horse carriage ride around the island and saw amazing views of istanbul and the bosphorus, pretty victorian homes that rich ottoman merchants built for themselves as vacation homes, and an old monastery. afterward, we rented bikes (yes, i know - me! biking!) to go around the island. i actually did quite well, considering my inexperience, and didn't hit anybody or anything, and made it up several steep hills. first serious exercise of the trip - felt nice. i'm sorry to admit, though, that i got my wheel caught in a small depression while climbing a hill, and i fell off my bike and on my face. thankfully, i caught myself and walked away merely dirty and bruised in dignity. jasmin kindly suggested that i ate it because the rental shop gave me a crappy kids' bike that was too heavy and didn't maneuver well (to say nothing of the gears, which were permanently stuck in a very high setting). but no matter - jasmin and i had a fabulous time riding and walking around the island, and got to sample more kebap, dondurma (weirdly stretchy turkish ice cream), and these little bagel-shaped donut-like thingies.

in fact, we have not been eating out very often. the family has been so kind and has fed us so often that we find ourselves rarely spending our own money to eat out. auntie cihan feeds us in her home all the time, auntie hulya has fed us in her home and taken us to cafes and malls (in her own inimitable style), uncle oguz took us out to zanzibar and a fabulous fish restaurant, and auntie mihriban was kind enough to invite us to her brother's house for dinner.

i am not sure about how long the battery on this computer will last, so let me summarize the things i want to tell you about, so that if i lose power i can fill you in on the blanks later:
  • monday: breakfast at auntie cihan's work, escapades around two big turkish malls courtesy of auntie hulya, fish dinner with the family
  • tuesday/yesterday: buyukada, dinner at auntie mihriban's brother's house / family dance party part vi
  • today's plan: see open bazaar on asian side, mosey around istiklar street, go to some bars with sinem and her friends at sunset, catch the red-eye bus leaving at midnight for uncle murat's house
  • tomorrow: beach, or efesus - not sure

we haven't seen fuat yet because he has been very very busy with work. as it is, his fiancee only got to see him last week for perhaps a minute or two when she met him at the airport to switch his bags so that he could leave immediately upon arrival for another business trip. when he gets back from this one, he will undergo his surgery, and then we will visit him sometime afterward. hopefully, he will be all right and have a fast recovery

love,

aysha

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Tuesday, June 02, 2009

WOW! WHAT A TREAT FOR US...

We just love your detailed blogs. Mom and I are sooooo glad you are having such a good time. Keep on writing.

Mom and Dad

 


Monday, June 01, 2009

Tıred and recoverıng.

Merhaba!

Sorry we haven't been writing as much, it's been a little crazy. Partly our own fault... Saturday and Sunday, because we didn't have an alarm, we woke up whenever we happened to wake up - both days that happened to be 11! Oh man. It was nice though, sleeping in. Helped us really recover from jetlag, I think.

So let's go over Saturday's events! We of course woke up at 11, after which we got presentable and had a very nice brunch prepared by Auntie Hulya and Levent's maid. There was lots of peynir (cheese), siyah ve yesil zeytin (black and green olives), quince and strawberry jam, socuk(YUM!), yumurta (eggs), and of course... simit! Oh, it was really nice. Auntie Hulya then took Aysha and me to see a different side of Turkey we had not previously experienced. First we drove around a bit while she showed us some upscale areas with really nice stores, and the one we stopped to look around in was the area in which Fatoş lives. We parked and wandered around, looking at the beautiful buildings and designer stores, and ultimately sat at a little cafe and had some lattes. What people! We watched many expensive-looking people and CEOs wifes pass by, many of which Auntie Hulya knew. And by complete chance Fatoş happened to walk by with a friend, and we finally got to meet her. They look so much alike, Fatoş and Auntie Hulya! I knew she was Auntie Hulya's sister before I even met her. We chatted a little while longer, and then we went back to the car so Auntie Hulya could take us to another place.

For lunch we went to a very nice restaurant by the water called Aşşh Cafe (I think, something like that) and apparently it's where all the big names go, and where the paparazzi follow them. We didn't see anyone there, but certainly all the other patrons of the restarant looked as if they could be celebrities. Very manicured and well-groomed people. It certainly is the kind of place where people go to see and be seen. Aysha and I found it to be a very interesting experience. Of course, the food was great (we've never experienced otherwise here in Istanbul) and had a very nice time with Auntie Hulya.

After that, we went to another really lovely place by the Bosphoros, very close to where Ekin and her family lives. Aysha and I really liked this area. Many interesting little cafes, sea breeze, interesting people, and lots of ice cream places! Auntie Hulya took us to a reeeeeally tiny ice cream store (Mini Dondurma -- which means ice cream) that she told us is Fuat's favorite. Well, as we all know, that kid has great taste. It was very delicious, and we strolled around while we ate it. Afterwards, we walked along the water until we were in front of Ekin's house. Levent joined us, and then she met us by her boat which was parked right on the shore outside her house, and we very precariously boarded a small plank onto her gooorgeous boat. It was really something! She brought out lots of little snacks for us her maid had prepared - including some tasty little kofte about 1 in. in diameter, and a fried borek that we'd never tried before, with spinach in it. All very delicious of course. We had a lovely ride, observing all the properties on the shore, the owners of which Ekin and Auntie Hulya knew many. What beautiful houses! Cook guzel. The weather was great, the sea breeze on our faces felt incredible, and the water was not that choppy at all.

After the boat ride, we went back to the apartment to change into evening clothes, and then all went to Sortie, one of the most famous restaurant-clubs in Istanbul. It's a huge place on the Bosphoros with a bunch of restaurants encircling the main bar in the middle, and then at night it turns into a huge nightclub. All outdoors. Auntie Hulya knows us well, and took us to a restaurant that had great kebab. The pistachio kebab was by far my favorite. and there were lots of tasty little mezzes and salads too. Of course, we had Raki to go with it, as is the way of a true Turk. All followed by DELICIOUS pistachio baklava and KAYMAK baklava. Yum! I seriously think that experiencing a country's food is at least half the cultural experience. At this point, Sortie's main area was starting to get crowded, the music had changed from lounge to electronic club beats. We wandered into the main area that by now was quite crowded, danced a little bit, and then made our way home. By the time we got home, it was well after midnight, and Aysha and I chatted our way to sleep, surprisingly not tired at all. Just like we used to, giggling well into the night. 

Perhaps that why we woke up for a second morning at 11. Mom, look what happens to us when you're not there to wake us up! Haha. As for Sunday, after our late start, we rushed to get ready, so we wouldn't make Auntie Hulya and Levent wait too long, and then were treated to a wonderful brunch by the Bosphorus at that same restaurant we went to last year with you guys! Unfortunately, I can't remember the name... but wow it was coook lezzetli, very delicious. GREAT socuk. After that, we had a nice stroll down the shore, watching the beautiful shoreline, all the fishermen, and observing other riverside activities. After Auntie Hulya got too cold, we got a taxi back to the apartment.

Not long after, we got in a car on our way to the other side. We got to visit Auntie Hulya's father, and the house that he now lives in is the summer house she used to come visit when she was young, maybe 12-14. It was very interesting seeing a piece of her childhood! Very nice place, right near the water. There was a realy nice promenade by the water on which we strolled on for almost an hour. There was grassy areas where people were picnicing, people biking, rollerblading, and skateboarding, and some people were even swimming on a nearby mini-beach. What a beautiful day. It actually reminded me very much of Los Angeles, something like Venice Beach. After we got back to the house, we sat down and had tea on the balcony with Auntie Hulya, Levent, her father, and her brother. Her brother apparently hadn't seen Aysha and I since the last Turkey trip. He remembered Aysha, dad throwing her into the air and her giggling for more. Very sweet. It was an enjoyable afternoon.

Auntie Hulya and Levent then drove us to the Cafe Zanzibar (with a lovely view of the water -- like everywhere else), where we met up with everyone: Auntie Cihan, Auntie Mihriban, Oguz Amca, Ipek, Onur, Sinem, Selim, and of course, the beautiful mother-to-be Deniz. She looks exactly the same as very, just as thin and beautiful, except for her belly! She's six months in. And mom, you were right in picking the color blue because it's going to be a boy, and they've picked the name Efe for him. It means something similar to strong man. I think. Not entirely sure. Anyway, we had a reeeeeally wonderful dinner with great food and even greater company. And I was speaking a lot of Turkish! I can really feel myself getting better, and it's a great feeling. And then there's Aysha, who can't speak Turkish really, but you'd be surprised at how much she can understand. I'm pretty impressed. I got some good practice with Ipek - I'd speak to her in Turkish, and she'd respond in English. She seems really excited for her upcoming American trip! Can't wait.

Afterwards, we all caravaned to Auntie Cihan's place. Aysha and I then distributed the gifts, all of which I described what was for each person in Turkish. Everyone was very grateful. And then when the presents for Efe came out, everyone collectively said, "Awwwww." No one appreciated their gifts more than Deniz and Selim I think. Actually... maybe not. Oguz Amca really liked his Berkeley hat, to which I told him, "Cok iyi! Benim universitesi adi Cal, ve dunyada en iyi universitesi." (Very good! My university's name is Cal, and it's the best university in the world). All around, you really nailed it mom, as always. We told Deniz and Selim how excited you were and gave you credit. They offer their thanks. Nothing brings a family together like a baby!

Uncle Davut was also back from his trip and we got to chat with him, unlike last time where we couldn't communicate at all. Seriously guys, I'm picking up some speed too. I need to work on my vocabulary, but they tell me my grammar is quite good. I had an entire conversation with Davut, asking him about his trip, telling him about graduation, and our trip so far, and all kinds of things. It fills me with a really wonderful warm feeling, being able to do this. I love it and I love this family so much. I am just so touched by how warm they all are, how they invited us so quickly into their family.

 

Alright Mom, I hope this satisfied you! I tried to include every detail for you. We love you and miss you so much. We'll try to write soon, but I'm not sure if we'll have a computer nearby. We will, of course, do our best.

All our love and millions of hugs and kisses to both of you!!!!



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